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you're worthy of love. your quirks, your body size, your disability, your scars, acne, stretchmarks, and anything else you're insecure about - none of it means you're any less loveable. everything about you deserves love, even the parts you don't like.
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you are not an exception. you deserve the same happiness you wish on everyone else. you are just as worthy as them. please never forget that.